This artwork includes all the animals I've loved and lost over the years.
The House Shouldn’t Be This Quiet
Benjamin was family. He was my husband Tony’s heart dog and one of the great loves of our life.
When he died, that final room felt enormous.
But that room was not the whole relationship.
There were years before it. Ordinary breakfasts. Greetings at the door. The way he knew our footsteps and we knew his. Mud, laughter, and all the small routines that quietly become a life together.
This gentle, guided experience grew from that love, and from wanting to offer Tony, and anyone else who has loved and lost an animal who was family, somewhere gentle to face the days after they're gone.
NZ$67. One payment. Immediate online access through the All About Your Joy app. Listen privately, in your own time.
Veterinary Care Ends.
Love Doesn’t
The bowl is still there and you still expect to hear their footsteps. You still reach for the lead or the pet food, and then you realise they're gone.
If you've found your way here after losing a much-loved companion, you're in the right place.
There is a particular kind of silence after a pet dies.
It's there the moment you walk in the front door. The part of the day that used to belong to a walk or even a cuddle. Every single reminder can feel like losing them all over again.
Healing After Pet Loss is a private 28-day guided experience where you can come for a few minutes each day, without being asked to move on, fix your grief or follow a particular timetable.
Each day offers a few gentle minutes of online support you can access privately, in your own time.
What You’ll Receive
Twenty-eight gentle daily recordings.
An introduction, a gentle note before you begin, a moving practice, and a closing recording.
Immediate online access through the All About Your Joy app.
Lifetime access, so you can pause, repeat, or return months later.
The 28 days give the course a shape. They are not a deadline. If Day 4 is where you need to stay for a week, stay there. If you miss half of it and come back later, it will still be waiting for you.
What the Days Hold
We begin close to the life that has changed. The quiet house. The missing routines. The shock of reaching for someone who is no longer physically there.
There is room for the difficult questions, and for all the years that came before the final day.
Later, the recordings spend time making room for both love and memory without turning either into a lesson.
Nothing here asks you to stop loving your pet. Love was never the problem.
Grief is what love can feel like when someone important is no longer physically here.
There is no need to let go of the love in order for the grief to soften.
When the World Suddenly Feels Different
There is room for the thoughts that keep returning to the final day.
And for the questions that seem to have no answers.
* Did I wait too long?
* Did I do it too soon?
* Were they frightened?
* Did they know how much I loved them?
There is no judgement and nothing you need to achieve.
Is This Right For Me?
You can begin soon after a death or years later.
You may be grieving a dog, cat, horse, rabbit, or any other animal who was family. You do not need to use the right language or follow a perfect schedule. Whether your companion died yesterday, last month or years ago, love doesn't work to a timetable.
This private guided experience offers gentle support and reflection. It does not replace counselling, medical care, veterinary guidance or crisis support.
The 4-Week Journey
Week One: Finding Your Feet Again
The first days after losing a companion can feel completely disorienting. Life suddenly looks familiar, yet nothing feels quite the same. This first week helps you gently settle into the rhythm of each day, creating a little steadiness while everything still feels uncertain.
Week Two: Honouring the Love You Shared
Grief exists because love exists. This week creates space to remember your companion with kindness, allowing the beautiful moments you shared to sit alongside the sadness.
Week Three: Making Room for Whatever You Feel
There's nothing you need to force and nothing you need to hold back. This week gently supports whatever is present, helping you be with whatever each day brings.
Week Four: Carrying Their Love Forward
Your companion will always be part of your story. As the days unfold, many people begin noticing small moments of warmth returning alongside their grief, while keeping the bond you shared close to your heart.
Begin When You're Ready
The final day matters.
But it's not the only day that mattered.
Before You Go
If today isn't the day you begin, that's okay. Grief asks different things of us at different times. Whether you arrive today, next week, or months from now, this place will still be here.
When you're ready, you can begin with the first recording. One day at a time.
Questions You Might Have
How do I cope after putting my dog to sleep?
Many people find their thoughts returning to the final appointment again and again. Healing After Pet Loss offers a gentle place to come back to each day, helping you make room for everything you're feeling without asking you to rush or move on.
I keep wondering if I did the right thing. Is that normal?
Questions about the final decision are incredibly common after losing a beloved pet. The recordings gently make room for those thoughts without judging them or trying to force an answer.
What if I cry during the sessions?
Then you're exactly where this journey begins. Grief often asks to be felt before it can begin to soften, so there's no need to hold anything together here. If you need to pause, pause. If you need to listen again tomorrow, that's perfectly okay too. This journey moves at your pace.
My dog died yesterday. Is it too soon to begin?
Some people begin the day they come home. Others return weeks, months or even years later. The recordings will be waiting whenever the time feels right.
What if my cat died a long time ago?
Love doesn't measure time the way calendars do. Many people discover that grief resurfaces months or even years later, often when life becomes quieter. Whenever you've found your way here, you're welcome.
What if I don't have the energy to listen every day?
You don't have to. Some people listen every day, while others return whenever they need a little steadiness. There is no falling behind, and there is nothing to catch up on. Your journey unfolds in your own time.
What if my companion wasn't a dog?
Love doesn't belong to one species. This journey honours that love. This experience was created for anyone grieving an animal who was family, whether that was a dog, cat, horse, rabbit, bird or another much-loved companion. The bond you formed matters. They become like our sons and daughters and that is the type of grief that other people may not understand. But here at All About Your Joy, we do.
Is this part of the All About Your Joy membership?
Healing After Pet Loss is a standalone guided journey. Once you've purchased it, you'll have lifetime access through the All About Your Joy app. If you'd like to continue exploring Simply Being Here later on, you'll also find a growing library of meditations and guided experiences inside the membership.
What if I don't usually meditate?
Perfect. You don't need any experience. Just press play and listen. The recordings are short, gentle, and simply invite you to pause for a few minutes each day.
Every experience is a doorway, and every doorway leads back to
simply being here.
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